This is a decision-making framework I developed to introduce perspectives in Hong Kong, Japan, and the Asia Pacific region. It’s meant to help individuals weigh decisions given their values, priorities, and risk profile. I first presented this at the Asian Centre for Aids Services (ACAS) in Toronto and the Victoria University Students Administrative Centre (VUSAC) at the University of Toronto. This decision making framework could apply to most life decisions and was originally inspired by Brandon Chu’s framework for making decisions as a product manager. Whether you identify as LGBTQ or not, I think this decision making framework can be applied to anyone’s life based on their roles and relationships for family, friends, and work.
Hong Kong’s 8th Pride Parade undoubtedly contributed to cleaner air for a good few hours this past Sunday as 10,000 marchers worked their way from Causeway Bay to Central. And, as you can see from my favourite photo above, the event was pretty family friendly. Hong Kong’s LGBTQ events may be a modest size compared to ones like Toronto, Vancouver, New York, San Fran, and even Taipei’s, but I look forward to this event whenever I am in town.
This is an overview LGBTQ post for travellers and people living in Tokyo from abroad. Most of the information is for gay and lesbian Tokyo (i.e. Shinjuku’s night life), but I’ve included gender-related information that I’m aware of for trans and non-binary friends. Trans friends should also check out the awesome Stonewall Japan Guide (2016). I also have a LGBTQ Living in Japan post that covers work, visas, communities, and queer family considerations.
- How LGBTQ-friendly is Tokyo?
- What’s the community and scene like?
- Tokyo’s LGBTQ community groups
- Are there LGBTQ events to attend in Tokyo?
- Shinjuku’s gay and lesbian bars
- What’s it like living here?
- What’s some good Japanese LGBTQ content to check out?
1. How LGBTQ-friendly is Tokyo?
The answer is, it depends. Packed into everyone who identifies as LGBTQ+ is a host of other factors that can affect reception, such as your perceived ethnicity, language ability, perceived gender, and social circles, to name a few factors. LGBTQ-friendliness can be separated into at least three categories: locals, foreigners who live in Japan, and foreign travellers. Even for foreigners, the experience of Tokyo based on Japanese language ability can vary widely. For this post, most of the information is geared towards travellers, but is true for foreigners living in Japan as well.
To cover the most basic consideration, there’s virtually no public discrimination against same-sex couples or gender ambiguity. In general, public violence is not commonplace nor condoned. From visible foreign travellers to locals alike, one is likely not going to be called slurs or in danger of getting assaulted. This is partially due to lack of awareness (people don’t realise you’re gay or lesbian), partially to Tokyo’s range of subcultures (i.e. you may just register as someone with eccentric fashion), partially that visible foreigners have a gaijin pass, meaning they’re given exceptions.
PDA has a different standard for women and men. No-one would bat a lash at women holding hands, since it’s commonplace from grade school right into adulthood. Men, unfortunately, don’t have the same luxury.
For travellers, one other logistical consideration may be booking hotels or filling in anything where you have a spouse or travelling with family. If you’re travelling as a couple, I personally don’t see any issue with just filling out the usual booking forms for a shared room. Generally, hospitality in Japan dictates that the front desk would give everyone a proper, professional greeting. Officially, Japan recognizes the marriage certificates of any issuing country.
For trans and non-binary people, the washrooms are usually the biggest concern. In Tokyo, accessible toilets, or “Toilets-for-everyone” are everywhere, from train stations to department stores. They are a great option. Otherwise, go to the washroom of the gender you identify as. I’m often mistaken for a boy, and the most I’ll get is a gentle comment about how the men’s room is the other way. For onsen, the easiest solution is to have your own private room onsen (which can be pricey). Since everyone must go in nude, it will be expected that you physically match the stereotypes of cis-male and cis-female bodies.
Are there exceptions to what I’ve described? Definitely. For example, I haven’t discussed bullying in schools, how discrimination manifests in ways other than violence, late-nighty rowdiness, or yakuza fights.
2. What’s the community and scene like?
My information is mostly second-hand, as I wasn’t actively in the community while I lived there. Queer friends made up a significant part of my social circle, and it was through their networks and involvement that I learned a lot about local queer culture (and challenges).
Shinjuku Nichome is Tokyo’s equivalent to New York’s Greenwhich Village, San Fran’s Castro, London’s Soho, Toronto’s Church St, etc. In short, it is where the queer community is visible and active, but mostly in the way of bars, clubs, and sex clubs. Tokyo’s unique spin is that this massive collection of social spaces is squeezed into a few small blocks, in even tinier venues. Nichome is of the same stock as Shinjuku’s nearby tourist attractions: Golden Gai and Omoideyokocho (Yakitori Alley). Nichome is the place you go to from 8pm through until 8am the next day, hopping from bar to bar, and eventually returning to your favourites.
The local and foreign communities don’t mix too much because language remains a huge barrier, but check out my section below on Tokyo’s LGBTQ community groups. For gay men, there are Japanese men who only “specialise” in dating foreign men — and from what I’ve been told, fetishes are pretty common.
Many people, especially locals, are not entirely out. To them, going to Tokyo Rainbow Pride once a year or hanging out in Shinjuku may be their main community event. Or, they may have a private LINE group with a group of friends that they hang out with. This socialising tends to be organic and introduction-based rather than advertising a community group online. If you befriend a local, please be mindful of their situation and check in to see how out they are to their various social circles.
LGBTQ rights and events are growing in number. In the past few years, Tokyo’s Rainbow Pride has picked up steam(since Rainbow Tokyo and Tokyo Pride finally joined forces) and attracts a fun crowd in the parade through Shibuya to Yoyogi Park. Try to meet people there! There’s also a film festival and more workplace-related initiatives.
LGBTQ things pop up in random places, such as otaku-related areas. On the plus side, Japanese culture has anachronisms that seem liberal elsewhere. This eclectic mix can all fall under “weird” Japan to the outside world and that means that you might find vintage pornography magazines in second-hand bookshops or cosplayers in the high-end Ginza shops. Be on the lookout for LGBTQ related things, such as yaoi in the anime mecha of Nakano Broadway.
3. Tokyo’s LGBTQ Community Groups
Up until a few years ago, Tokyo’s gay and lesbian community posted events on Mixi, sort of Japan’s version of MySpace. Unfortunately, that seems to have collapsed with the rise of mobile, and there isn’t a consolidated place to get information. For those who know a bit of Japanese, Twitter is a good source of information, as Japanese are heavy users.
Apart from knowing a few queer friends in Tokyo, I typically met people through Meetup.com going for movies, coffees, and book clubs. I also just tagged along with friends to meet their friends, especially around dates like Tokyo Rainbow Pride (late April to May).
Gay and Lesbian Meetup groups:
- Tokyo LGBTQIAP+ and Supporters – pretty active group
- Tokyo LGBT Community Cafe
- Tokyo Gay Book Group
- Tokyo Gay Professionals
- Go Meet Japan (Yaoi interest)
For women, there is a local Japanese group called Kakurez (隠れズ) that supports lesbians who are mostly not out.
Are there LGBTQ to attend in Tokyo?
In addition to the clubs and Meetup.com events, there are some annual events to check out.
- Tokyo Rainbow Reel and Tokyo’s Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
- Twitter’s LGBT Events
- Tokyo Rainbow Pride (Late April – Early May) — with several events and a parade that goes from Shibuya to Yoyogi Park, with performances
- Shinjuku Nichome’s Matsuri (August) — like most summer festivals, it feels like a neighbourhood party, but with drag queens, performances, and lots of street food
- Gender Free Party happens a few times a year (tip from a trans friend who lived there)
Shinjuku’s gay and lesbian bars
Most of the night life is in Shinjuku Nichome for both men and women. The area is affectionately called Nichome and I would recommend walking over from the Tokyo Metro Shinjuku Sanchome Station because the station is a more manageable size.
Bar Culture & how to meet people
- Totally okay to go on your own.
- It’s a custom to treat a bartender. You say ippai douzo (一杯どうぞ) and let the bartender choose their own drink.
- The bartenders help introduce you to a place. By treating the bartender, they will help initiate conversations to include you. Of course, look for the more chatty ones.
- Barhopping is common practice. It is called hashigo. Bartenders will usually say itterashai when you go, and welcome you back with okaeri when you return later.
- If you like a place, consider having a “bottle keep”. You buy a full bottle and you can likely paint or label the bottle as you like. That will be your bottle every time you come in, which is a great way to get into the community.
Shinjuku bars for gay men
For the guys, there is stuff going on. Places are small, but also numerous. Places gay men can be categorized from bars, clubs, massage parlours, and sex clubs.
Please double check that the places are still open, as they may either have moved or closed. Shinjuku’s rents are quite high and there are some yakuza associations, so bar owners are often under high pressure.
Some of the popular ones I’ve heard of are:
24 Kaikan Hotel and Sauna Shinjuku 7-story sauna with communal and private rooms, baths, steam rooms, glory-hole room, cafe. ¥2,600 for 13 hours. Open 24 hours, 365 days. Foreigner friendly, but limited English. This article explains navigating 24 Kaikan.
AiiRO Cafe is a hole in the wall with an English-speaking proprietor.
Aisotope Lounge is a two-level gay bar and club with quite a packed party schedule.
Arty Farty has enough space for a dance floor, and unlimited drinks with the cover during happy hour.
DNA is a good place for a chat and open daily.
Dragon Men is a streetside bar (in contrast to some of the upstairs spaces) and is one of the more spacious options. Daily happy hour is from 6pm-9pm.
Fuji has kareoke and is for more mature foreign guys and Japanese guys into them.
Kinsmen is a well-established place with friendly bar staff and no cover charge.
Leo Lounge, where I’ve heard the staff are friendly.
Tac’s Knot is a small space that also features gay artists’ work as it’s run by a local artist.
All of these places are within the same 200-metre radius. Note that many are not on the first floor, so double check the address when you click on the link to the Google map location. You can check the Japan Visitor list complete with a sectional map. There’s also a Japanese “boy’s map” for Japan: Otoko-machi Map (男街マップ).
Apparently, the Shinbashi area is also another location that attracts 30+ office crowds. It’s also more local, so go with someone who speaks Japanese. Town House Tokyo and Bravo! are two places that are more foreigner-friendly. This is more an office area, so check the opening hours — some places are closed on Sundays.
Tokyo lesbian bars
Adezakura (艶櫻) Is a recommendation from a friend who says it’s popular amongst locals and foreigners.
Agit アジト A lesbian-owned bar with kareoke. Has a cover charge.
Bar Goldfinger is probably Shinjuku’s most famous lesbian bar.
Hug Closed (according to Google). Kins Womyn Closed.
Diamondholic – A local friend says the staff try to connect people and get everyone chatting to each other. My friend has had introductions to English-speaking people.
Dorobune – Teppanyaki restaurant and lesbian bar-in-one
FIVE is a local friend’s recommendation. She says it’s popular among foreigners too.
絆 Kizuna is for an older crowd and has kareoke
Motel #203 (?) Not sure. I think it might have been folded into Goldfinger now, as the website is down and I can’t search information even in Japanese.
Peach (1F Shinjuku 2-15-8, Shinjuku-ku, Tokyo) — Might be closed. Open Tues – Sat 11pm-7am. Peach mark in a brick building beside ‘Hug’.
Tamago is a women-only bar. A friend told me was mainly FTM and that they can rip off customers (¥2000 cover and ¥1000 drinks).
Chestnut and Squirrel in Shibuya is closed.
What’s it like living here?
I’ve realised this deserves another post, so I’ll leave this as a placeholder. I put some general comments on how LGBTQ-friendly is Tokyo and what the community is like in the above sections.
Just two contacts in case you are new to Tokyo:
Tokyo English Life Line 03 5774 0992 (9am-4pm, 7pm-11pm)
HIV & Human Rights Info for English speakers 03 5259 0256 (Saturdays only, noon-3pm)
The Nijiro Navi may provide some queer places to visit
What’s some good Japanese LGBTQ content to check out?
This list is no particular order!
- 隣の家族は青く見える Tonari no Kazoku wa Aoku Mieru (2018) – Gay Couple Wataru and Saku have been making waves on mainstream Japanese TV
- 弟の夫 (Ototo no Otto / My Brother’s Husband) (2018) is a TV adaptation of a manga
- Gay Map (Japanese) – Directory of gay groups, events, spaces based on prefecture
- Genxy – A Japanese mostly gay male web magazine
- Nijiro News (formerly Taku & Rei’s Room) – blog between an American and Japanese couple based in Fukuoka)
- Out in Japan (Photo & Video Series)
- Letitbee Life (Japanese Media) A relatively recent, but seems pretty successful, campaign to raise awareness on gay and lesbian issues
- Rebit (Japanese Site)
- 2CHOPO (Japanese Event & Media Site)Utopia Japan – Has useful information about the gay and lesbian scenes in Japan, especially for night life.
- Gay Japan News – A Japanese gay and lesbian news site, with an English section.
- Tokyowrestling – A Japanese-English bilingual site with lesbian and queer culture from a Japanese perspective.
- Huffington Post JP (Japanese) – Mostly translations of LGBTQ news globally
- Nijiiro Diversity – Company that advocates for diversity in the workplace
- Being Black & Gay in Tokyo (2016)
- Another Gay Man in Tokyo (2015)
- Being gay in Japan (2013)
Have any tips to share with the community? Please leave a comment and I’ll credit you in my edits!
If you liked this post, check out my other LGBTQ-related posts:
This post is a complimentary one to my first on things I love about being gay in East Asia. The contents are based on my own personal experiences, and not meant to be exhaustive or define any ‘East Asian’ cultural traits. I’ve started writing about LGBTQ topics is to create more accessible English information on the nuance and diversity in East Asia.
This isn’t a post about how things are, but rather challenges we can think about. Many of them are shared with other LGBTQ communities around the world. Also, as caveating my perspective as a queer, cis-female, gender ambiguous, Cantonese-speaking, Chinese Canadian.
This piece is a work in progress, so would love your thoughts! If you’re travelling to Hong Kong, here’s a brief guide to LGBTQ Hong Kong.
Names. Labels. Gender roles.
Gay and lesbian are still the easiest terms to search up, or their Chinese equivalents.
LGBT…Q? Cultural appropriation? Intersectionality?! I’ve given up on the conversations I loved most in Toronto in the queer community thinking about the complexities of identities, negotiations, power relations, marginalisation, and what doing justice means. I have, however, been introducing cis / trans into many of my dinner table conversations. 🙂 Baby-steps.
And something I lump into this is the archaic binary roles. People here are still pretty butch/femme, tomboy/princess. Good luck if you don’t fit. 😦
As long as it’s not my child.
This has never happened to me, since I don’t have immediate family in Hong Kong, but this is a reality many expats don’t fully appreciate about their local counterparts, who often still live with family. The indifference on the street coexists cozily with the stubborn lack of acceptance if it were in your own home. I feel more safe in Hong Kong on the street than Canada (where I spent the first 20 years of my life) or London, where I studied. But within homes, there’s an implicit silence, awkwardness, and genuine smothering concern (at best) how difficult life is and (at worst) your salvation. It’s unlikely you’ll cause an argument at a family friend’s dinner because of your crew cut (as a cis-female) because…you’re not their daughter. At the same time, people can live all their lives in the closet from their parents who are still trying to set them up in their 40s.
I do think the churches and their generally conservative and vocal stances are a problem. The churches, as institutions, have a huge influence in Hong Kong. I repeat, as institutions, because I not only respect, but admire, those who have faiths, be it of the Judeo-Christian tradition or otherwise. Last year, the church called voters to take into account representatives‘ stance on same-sex marriage, a point of contention between the Church and activists in 2015. The Catholic church reportedly has 581,000 followers though the 2016 census seems to report 480,000 Protestants and 379,000 Catholics. The Catholic church has also been vocal about its views on same-sex relationships. This is not to say other religious institutions around the world have not used their weight to influence government or legislature — just that it’s an equal problem for any place that has it. The reason I make special mention of it is because the churches are well funded and resourced and not only own land, but run many social programs and social events (so their influence is far greater than their official worshiper numbers). In addition, Hong Kong’s schools were largely founded by missionaries and one only has to pull up school list in the city to find that over 50% have Catholic or Protestant roots. Needless to say, resources are devoted to people who try to cure themselves of same-sex preferences or gender dysphoria. The result is that early on, the strong social networks that surround and individual send implicitly unsupportive signals (exceptions exist, of course).
Actually, it matters everywhere. This was a common topic of conversation in Canada, too, and it sucks just as much in Hong Kong. The privileges that are afforded the expat community especifically living in Hong Kong include that they don’t have to deal with family at their front door. I am Chinese ethnically, but I don’t have to deal with anyone who tells me I will go to hell for having a same-sex partner. However, many people don’t have a choice — their family, extended family, family friends, and in some cases even schools, may be reminding them of this fact.
But let me parse out my veiw of Hong Kong’s real hierarchy:
- Chinese with an expat accent: i.e. British / North American / Australian, New Zealand, South African (because people can’t tell the difference)
- Anyone with the above accents
- Local Hong Kong
- Mainland Chinese
- South Asian, Filipino, Indonesian
- The rest: Black, Middle-Eastern, anyone they can’t identify
I asked some local friends for feedback. Other versions of the list include White, Cantonese, Taiwanese and everyone else (no distinction). Some people put Koreans above Chinese. Some people didn’t even think other people of colour (PoC) were a factor…
Like many other things in Hong Kong, by visibly being white, you are exempt from a string of expectations — including the need to be straight. If you are brown, Filipino, or Indonesian, and do not have an expat accent, you’re going to have a lot of trouble dating.
If you don’t speak Cantonese, I would not bet on trying to get to know the local scene. It’s unfortunate, and of course give it a try, but I think you will quickly get a sense of what I mean.
Unfortunately, the lists for lesbian bars isn’t very updated. Many of the popular places open, close, and re-open again somewhere else. The best thing to do is to get connected with a local friend who likes nightlife and ask where the newest haunts are. Your best bet is to use the local lesbian app Butterfly or Grinder, Jack’d and Hornet for the guys.
The trans struggle is just picking up speed around the world recently, and I would say Hong Kong is keeping up proportional pace. Hong Kong has a wonderful advocate named Joanne Leung and Hong Kong’s trans support group. This year during Pride, there was a trans art exhibition, which is progress.
But is it anywhere near liveable levels for our trans friends? No.
I don’t know to what level gender violence in washrooms hits, as it’s not as discussed nor as contentious as an issue here. I do have gender ambiguous and trans friends here and I find it difficult to summarise or compare their experiences. For example, for the people who live abroad or choose to stay abroad, they have found supportive communities. However, Hong Kong is also a city of 7 million people, compared to entire countries where people can move to more LGBTQ-friendly areas like the Bay Area or New York. Does Hong Kong have as visible, active, and large a community as either area? No, or not yet.
Corporates lead the way, while legislature lags behind
True to typical Hong Kong fashion, the private sector is much more up to speed. International firms have generally seen the benefits of inclusive programs and retaining talent, so of course it’s somewhat easier for colleagues in Hong Kong to bring such initiatives over.
Since Community Business did its first LGBTQ Diversity and Inclusion survey, Hong Kong’s come leaps and bounds. There’s GALA for the legal profession, CBRE + LGBTQ has just launched, etc.
The snag is in legalities for things such as spousal visas and taxes (especially for non-married partners). For those coming from international firms, some things are covered by the firm, like spousal benefits, but you need to be clear on exactly what you’re entitled to or protected by.
There’s no village.
In Toronto, it’s Church Street. In New York, it’s Greenwhich Village. In Vancouver it’s Commercial Drive and Davie Street. In London it’s…sort of (not really) Soho.
In a city that struggles to keep even its lesbian bars alive, it’s impossible to think of a community. The gay bars in Lan Kwai Fong (the Financial District) are entirely unaffordable for majority of the population.
I especially miss the Toronto queer community because Church Street is a space and a place for LGBTQA+-folk to gather and support each other. A community is more than a meat market and dating pool. The community means literally a community centre like the 519 on Church Street, and its own theatre (Buddy’s in Bad Times), ACAS (Asian Community AIDS Services) and QAY (Queer Asian Youth), and many more to cater to to the diverse needs and interests of the people who also happen to be LGBTTIQQ2SAA+ (did I get them all?). The Toronto community isn’t perfect, and it has just as many problems with marginalization (hence, the need for Black Lives Matter), but it exists. Of course, this list is the only way I can show what Hong Kong doesn’t have.
I recently met the organizer who started the first LGBTQ tour of Hong Kong, so you should check that out to get a sense of what’s around in understated corners.
So why am I still here?
Despite all my critiques, Hong Kong has been a welcoming place for a bilingual expat like me. (I don’t want to be an expat, but I cannot shed the privilege loaded into my English accent, nor my degree, nor my luxury to just buy a ticket out of the city whenever I like.)
I’ve lived with locals for most of my 7 or so years here, so I can relate to the need to tone down at home. I’m not out to the family friends I live with, though I have always had a pretty tomboyish/masculine presentation. I don’t know how they would react if I just dropped this identity on them, but at the same time, they’ve already basically accepted everything that I present as — and, thinking along a similar vein to my local friends — isn’t that enough?
I’ve also flatshared and lived on my own in Hong Kong before. I can afford to, am willing to, and am allowed to move out (something that parents really may not allow their 30-year old kids to do). Most of my local friends are missing one, if not all three, of those factors. This choice makes life much more livable — I’m not trapped at home, or even in Hong Kong for that matter.
Which means I can be picky about who I choose to work and hang out with here. My friends from both the English and Cantonese-speaking circles are open and supportive.
I make no secret of my social leanings nor preferences on social media, so I assume that anyone in Hong Kong who has added me either knows or is clueless enough to be a friend.
After my first workplace, I have always been out. This doesn’t mean I announce it to my boss at the interview before accepting an offer. It just means I dress as I like to the interview and assume that if they’ve hired me with shirt, tie and all, they got the message. My sexual preferences aren’t really an issue for me here, but it’s a testament to progress in general; I feel more comfortable in Hong Kong in 2017 than I did in Toronto in 2008 because the world has changed in the past decade.
So that is Hong Kong for me in a nutshell. Some other posts I’ve written on this topic are:
- Gay and Lesbian Resources in East Asia
- LGBTQ Hong Kong: A Brief Guide
- 10 Best Things about Being Gay and Lesbian in East Asia
If you liked this, would love a share! Thank you!
This is a quick list of LGBTQ community groups in English or Cantonese for people in Hong Kong and working notes on life for those who are living / thinking of moving here.
If you have any tips, information, and directories, please send them over!
Preference is for sites with English, or are relatively easy to navigate even if not. Some great non-English resources are included to get people started.
- 10 Best Things about Being Gay and Lesbian in East Asia
- LGBTQ Decision Making Approaches for Asia
- Gay and Lesbian Tokyo: A Brief Guide (Updated 2018)
- LGBTQ Living in Japan: A Guide for Work, Queer Families and Trans Individuals
- LGBTQ Hong Kong: A Brief Guide (Updated 2018)
- LGBTQ Hong Kong: Community Groups (Updated 2018)
- Observations on Gay and Lesbian Hong Kong
LGBTQ / Pride Events
Some places wait once a year for that awesome crowd at Pride in June or August, but it’s about time to come join the parties here in Asia. Pride is relatively new to Asia compared to the Stonewall Days, but they’re not too shabby for size.
Best of all, the Asian parties are spread throughout the year. Groups (mostly the guys) will also travel to annual events that aren’t explicitly LGBTQ just to have a good time too!
All the Gaycation options:
- Tokyo Rainbow Pride in early May
- Shanghai Pride in June
- Taiwan Pride end of October
- Pink Season in Hong Kong in November
- Songkran in Thailand in April
- Full moon parties in Bali
- Electric Daisy Carnival (EDC) in Vegas
Places to Go / Groups:
Asian governments may seem pretty cold to same-sex issues, but in general, they also have a hands-off policy. This means that many places have a decent or even outright vibrant underground scene. Below are some tips:
- Rural China: mah jong clubs
- Japan: gay bars in Tokyo’s Shinjuku Nichome, gay saunas, Otoko-machi Map (男街マップ) literally boy’s map, Twitter’s LGBT Events, check out my Gay and Lesbian Tokyo Guide
- Taiwan: Dating List On Hotline (http://hotline.org.tw/book/15)
- Hong Kong: Check out my LGBTQ Hong Kong Guide, kareoke bars
- Word-of-mouth events
- Meetup.com to find groups like Fruits n Suits (in Tokyo & Hong Kong)
For a seemingly conservative place, East Asia has a lot of queer content. Much of it is in mainstream media such as movies with sex-changing kungfu heroes, tabloids reporting on billionaire’s gay daughters, and Mainland Chinese media creating bromances for straight actors.
Check the media content from:
- Learn more about Japanese gay culture at a blog by Taku and Rei (A Japanese and Latino American and couple)
- Hong Kong Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
- Tokyo Rainbow Reel and Tokyo’s Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
- Taiwan’s International Queer Film Festival
- LGBTQ Chinese movies section of this Wikipedia
- Pink Alliance Hong Kong Movie List
- my post on LGBTQ Hong Kong
LGBTQ Media & Event Sites:
- Out in Japan (Photo & Video Series)
- Letitbee Life (Japanese Media)
- Rebit (Japanese Site)
- 2CHOPO (Japanese Event & Media Site)
Join Weixin 微信 public channels and groups
- SixthTone (English publication)
- 武漢RAINBOW LGBT
- Gay Groups:
- Lesbian Groups:
- GDot TV (Media Channel based in Hong Kong) – has English and international content
- my post on LGBTQ Hong Kong for a full list
The Lingo and Labels:
Taku and Rei have an excellent Glossary of Japanese Gay terms.
|同性戀||tóng xìng liàn||same sex love|
|同性愛||Dōseiai||same-sex love (Japanese)|
|同性||tóng xìng||same sex|
|誇性別||kuā xìng bié||Transgender|
|1 号||yī hào||top|
|0.5 号||líng diǎn wu hào||versatile|
|0 号||líng hào||bottom|
|P||Wife / princess (femme) lesbian|
|member||member* (Hong Kong)|
|G吧||g BAR||gay bar|
|同性浴室||tóng xìng yù shì||same-sex bathhouse|
|出柜||chū guì||out of the closet|
|卖的||mài de||male escort|
|狒狒||fèi fèi||people who like bears|
|猴子||hóu zi||Twink (monkey)|
|同妻||tóng qi||Gay husband|
Adapted from Wikipedia Article “Homosexuality in China“.
Gay and Lesbian Dating Apps:
- Lesbian Dating:
- Butterfly Android / iPhone
- Lesdo (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.lesdo.sns.playstore&hl=en) << Was shut down in China in 2017.
- Gay Men Dating:
- Meetup.com for events
If you have any tips to share, please send them over!
If you are visiting Hong Kong, check out my post on LGBTQ Hong Kong.